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The effects of divorce on children
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Divorce may be considered one of the most difficult issues in a child’s life. However, the effects are different depending on the child’s gender, age and stage of development. Many Jamaicans are in common-law relationships, therefore many children will never experience divorce. But separation also has the same effect on them. During or after a divorce or separation, a child may feel his world, security and stability are falling apart. Clinical psychologist Dr. Ashlie McFarlane points out that children may respond to divorce or separation with feelings of sadness, anxiety, or anger. “These feelings may result in social withdrawal, aggressive behaviour, social failure, or other behaviours,” she added. Divorce or separation for parents may be the end to an unhappy and unfulfilling relationship. However, the child may feel like he’s losing a parent, therefore helping him to adjust is important. Dr. McFarlane advises parents to talk to children about their feelings. Also to reassure them that they are loved and that the divorce is not their fault. And most importantly, not to allow them to witness ongoing anger or hostility between them. More : jamaica-gleaner.com |
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